I know brains do not always agree with this perspective, but try to imagine that to get the right job or school or opportunity or relationship you actually need rejection. It’s a thing that keeps you safe and helps you value your own wants and needs. It’s a tool that lets you find what you want. It hurts like hell sometimes, but it’s a thing you need. Being rejected from a thing where you won’t get what you need is better than being selected and wasting your time. Regardless of the accomplishments or qualifications or recommendations you have, no matter how hard you’re willing to work, not matter what you…